I am usually part of any disaster at a wedding if I'm a bridesmaid which I've been lucky enough to be several times.

I am usually part of any disaster at a wedding if I'm a bridesmaid which I've been lucky enough to be several times.

Well you can't be trying to achieve success of any kind in this business without accepting that there's going to be a flip side to it.

Well you can't be trying to achieve success of any kind in this business without accepting that there's going to be a flip side to it.

I always always meant to be on stage. I only ended up even auditioning for television and movies because I was understudying a Turgenev play on Broadway and was so broke that when I got a mini-series I had to take it and was so ashamed because I was such a snob.

I always always meant to be on stage. I only ended up even auditioning for television and movies because I was understudying a Turgenev play on Broadway and was so broke that when I got a mini-series I had to take it and was so ashamed because I was such a snob.

My mom has always said that the one thing she wishes she had done differently is have a job. She felt like the single-mindedness made her a little nuts sometimes and she could have used an outlet for herself when we were little.

My mom has always said that the one thing she wishes she had done differently is have a job. She felt like the single-mindedness made her a little nuts sometimes and she could have used an outlet for herself when we were little.

It's about getting the kids up and fed getting one to school getting the other down for a nap going to the grocery store picking one up from school getting the other one down for another nap cooking dinner… I live my life at these two extremes. I'm either a full-time stay-at-home mom or a full-time actress.

It's about getting the kids up and fed getting one to school getting the other down for a nap going to the grocery store picking one up from school getting the other one down for another nap cooking dinner… I live my life at these two extremes. I'm either a full-time stay-at-home mom or a full-time actress.

I remember my mom didn't have any help so if she needed to be somewhere after school we'd just go down to the neighbors' and she'd give us a snack and make sure we did our homework. There weren't any latchkey kids.

I remember my mom didn't have any help so if she needed to be somewhere after school we'd just go down to the neighbors' and she'd give us a snack and make sure we did our homework. There weren't any latchkey kids.

I don't have this fantasy about marriage anymore. Everyone says it takes hard work. Well it kind of does – and I'm much more pragmatic about romance than I used to be.

I don't have this fantasy about marriage anymore. Everyone says it takes hard work. Well it kind of does – and I'm much more pragmatic about romance than I used to be.

I thought the divorce statistics would never apply to me. I was beyond heartbroken when they did. But I got up and got on with it. I also kept my belief in marriage.

I thought the divorce statistics would never apply to me. I was beyond heartbroken when they did. But I got up and got on with it. I also kept my belief in marriage.

My sisters both are working mothers. I understand that my being an actress as well as being at home isn't some heroic thing. That doesn't mean it isn't confusing or difficult – especially that question of how you find a balance.

My sisters both are working mothers. I understand that my being an actress as well as being at home isn't some heroic thing. That doesn't mean it isn't confusing or difficult – especially that question of how you find a balance.

There's an internal battle. I need to work I need to work I need to work and I need to be home with my kids and the kids win.

There's an internal battle. I need to work I need to work I need to work and I need to be home with my kids and the kids win.

And now I still really don't care that much but now I have music playing all the time at home which is a first for me. Whatever. Everything from Ani DiFranco to Dave Matthews to Jack Johnson and Norah Jones.

And now I still really don't care that much but now I have music playing all the time at home which is a first for me. Whatever. Everything from Ani DiFranco to Dave Matthews to Jack Johnson and Norah Jones.